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Recovery

I slept until around 11:00 this morning and may have come close to resembling a hibernating bear. My spine upon awakening felt stiff and sore from having been in a supine position for so long, but I needed the rest. Pajamas were worn the entire day. There were grand intentions to hit the gym and clean my house but even those goals were brushed aside to embrace my lazy day. However, I did find myself on a cooking spree making a variety of dishes to include chili, fried chicken nuggets, baked sweet potatoes, mashed potatoes, and hamburger steak. My daughter even helped out with baking a double recipe of peanut butter cookies. The goal in mind was to have a few dishes already prepared for the upcoming week. It took what seemed to be forever to prepare these meals! Then there was the clean-up for the huge mess. The time factor is just another reason why I do not enjoy cooking.
Just finished prepping tomorrow’s busy lessons. My lazy day is now over.

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Key West and surroundings

I’m back to reality after returning from Florida today. My husband and I drove to the airport 5 days ago with a tentative plan of flying to Miami which would eventually get us to the Keys. It did. Thankfully, the plans actually worked. Here’s what our last few days have looked liked:

Monday-We left the kids with the grandparents who thankfully had agreed to babysit them while we were away. After arriving to the airport mid-afternoon, we quickly boarded a plane for Miami. We had no tickets, of course, because we were flying space-A, but we were fortunate to land 2 empty seats. Arrival time in Miami was around 6:00 p.m followed by picking up our rental car around 6:30. We had no where to stay, so we decided to head to South Beach for the evening. Several hotels we called initially said they were booked, so I researched trip advisor and came across a budget hotel called the “Harrison Hotel”. I forget what street the hotel is located on, but it’s only 3 blocks from the water and trip advisor had given the hotel favorable ratings for a budget-priced stay. We quickly moved into the Harrison for the evening and eventually found dinner at “Big Pink” diner, a fun little place just down the road. I believe Big Pink is owned and operated by the same company who runs Prime 112. I’m told Prime 112 is a hot spot for celebrities and fine dining. That’ll have to wait for the next trip. We eventually retired for the evening in our very tiny but quaint room with a leaky sink and old, uneven floors.

Tuesday-Upon awakening, I was able to squeeze a run in on South Beach. Gorgeous scenery although the wind was crazy strong, so the sand kept blowing into my eyes. We checked out of our little hotel and headed for the Everglades. Prior to entering the park, we toured an alligator farm and rode the fan boats (I forget what they’re called, but they are loud and fun). We eventually made it into the Everglades park and walked a few of the noted trails. Anhinga I believe, was one of them. Once the evening began to set in, we continued our journey down Highway One but detoured along the way on Card Sound Road to eat at Alabama Jack’s, another trip advisor favorite. I tried the conch fritters even though my husband refused. The fritter had an interesting flavor, a cross between mexican cornbread and hushpuppy pancakes. Interesting, but I would not order this again just because of the heaviness of the meal. And again, we headed down highway one towards Key West with  no where to stay. Fortunately, we secured a room at the navy base (Truman Annex) for a fraction of what the hotel chains were quoting us. We eventually settled in around midnight.

Wednesday-No alarm clocks. I believe we slept until 10:00 a.m.. Lunch at a local deli and then we spent the day covering the local tourist traps after watching the superboat races on the water just down from our hotel. We rode the train to hear some of the history behind the town, its structures, and people and ended the evening down at the marina for dinner. Gorgeous boats and great food-big fan of raw oysters and this particular restaurant we chose had them served perfectly.

Thursday-more sleep. We bought trinkets, had brunch at Denny’s in Key West, and then headed back up Highway 1 towards Miami. On my search for local event happenings in Miami I noticed that the Miami Heat was playing the L.A. Clippers, so we drove straight to the American Airlines Arena in downtown Miami. My husband and I changed clothes in the car in the parking lot since we looked and smelled like beachy Key West. I threw some deodorant on, brushed my teeth with a dry toothbrush, and we walked to the arena in search of tickets. We bought tickets at the ticket booth. They weren’t great, in the nose bleed section, but we were still able to see most of everything on the court including the bump-and-grind Miami heat dancers. I was a bit disappointed in their performances. Their dances seemed to consist mostly of hair tossing and pelvic gyrations, no real dance technique or moves. Maybe that’s what the crowd demands down in Miami, but they certainly could show off their dance skills without looking like the poles could come out anytime for a stripper show. I digress but being a former college dancer at Ole Miss, I can say these things. I did enjoy watching the various characters of the NBA like Lebron and Chris Anderson. Amazing athletes and entertaining. Afterwards, we secured a hotel for the night about 20 minutes away from the airport and fell asleep around 1 a.m.

Friday-early wake-up, 5:30 a.m. Eventually boarded the plane and landed back home in cold, windy, rainy weather. Ugh…we’re already missing that Floridian weather. Organized chaos immediately set in after my in-laws left. I spent a little time with my oldest son on fractions before he headed to robotics and soccer. My daughter left for gymnastics. My husband left with one of my other sons to watch the Army-Navy soccer game in Phili. There was never any time to decompress from the vacation. Oh, well. Count the blessings..

Saturday-It’s now almost 1 in the morning and more madness will occur today with activities. The weekend will fly by, and I’ll wonder how it’s all of a sudden Monday. Off to sleep. I’m exhausted, but I desperately need to hit the gym to work off this Floridian menu.

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Perseverance

I likely sound like a broken record, but our June days are highly concentrated on academics. I have certain goals to reach for each child before our summer begins, so that’s my focus. They all ask me, “When does our summer break begin, mom?” Of course, they know the answer is when we reach our goals, but still they like to ask. I’m not sure if their repetition is to throw me off course or if they’re hoping I’ll just throw in the towel and call it quits sooner than planned. I don’t give up so easily:) So, they are learning perseverance. Hard work pays off, usually. You want to be good at something, guess what? You have to put in the time, and that’s not always fun. My kids are not allowed to complain. I don’t believe in luck. I believe in the Almighty’s sovereign control over our lives. However, I tell them that you must do your part, not sit around and be lazy.
Well, enough of the band wagon. We discussed DOMA this morning. That’s one for the history books, no doubt. Tonight was spent riding around in a pink limousine and getting our nails done while celebrating a friend’s daughter’s birthday. Quite the transition from teaching all day. Good times…

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Playing catch-up and saying no

I was on one of our local co-op sites early this morning reading about the classes that they’re offering, and some of them sounded interesting. I had a fleeting thought that it would be nice for the kids if we were participating in some outside group classes. Then, the reality check hit me that next year I’ll be teaching 4 different grade levels, and there’s no way I can do a decent job in home studies and have the outside responsibilities of co-op classes, as well. Sometimes, you just have to say “no”‘because no is the right thing to say. We can’t be involved in everything. Maybe if I only had a couple of kids to teach, but I’ve got 4 minds to shape, so I have to be very selective on where we spend our time.
Today, for example, I decided to keep us home for the afternoon and evening and skip extracurriculars. My second son is getting over a stomach thing, and I still needed to work with my oldest on math. It was a gorgeous day outside, but we needed to cover a large amount of academics. Keep in mind that I’m one-on-one with each kid the majority of the time, so even when they are getting a break, I’m not because I’m moving to the next child. I spent all afternoon going from different subjects with each child, and I was constantly moving from room to room or getting back up from just sitting. I finished fractions around 10 o’clock with my second grader, and this was after I was reviewing fact families and number bonds with my first grader.
I still have quite a ways to go in our studies before we can say they’ve completed what they need to know for this school year (according to Calvert). My husband knows I’ve been in serious teaching mode lately, because it’s hard for me to shift gears from homeschooling to anything else. My mind is just constantly going on this, especially when I feel stressed about covering what I want or need to cover. I don’t even think I changed out of my sweatpants all day-that’s lovely. We did watch Looney Tunes after dinner. My girlfriend had sent over a left-over quiche which I was very appreciative of. I love free food, especially if it gets me out of dinner planning!

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2 kids are easy

Hubby and I played tag team today.  I assume most families are like ours in which your weekends aren’t really weekends anymore. They’re just a continuation of the weekly circus.

Today looked like this:

-wake-up 8ish for both Hubby and me, he’d had a few hours of sleep

-Hubby leaves with second son, picks up soccer team member for older son’s team to take him to another soccer team member’s house, then drives 45 mins to soccer game for second son, breakfast in route

-I get other 3 ready to leave, dressed and fed

-sitter picks up daughter and drives her to ballet

-I drive oldest son to an audition with third son

-Hubby and second son pick up daughter at ballet

-My 2 and I meet hubby and the other 2 at Boy Scouts Banquet

-Hubby and oldest 2 sons leave for 2-day soccer tournament that he is coaching one hour away opposite direction from previous soccer game

-I leave with bottom 2 to drive to watch gymnastics tournament 45 mins. away

-Bottom 2 and I swing by toy store:)

-Bottom 2 and I meet my girlfriend for dinner, Chinese food

-Day ends around 9:00 back home

Nutty, I know, and it’s all self-induced.  Why do we do this to ourselves?  Because we want to provide maximum opportunities and exposures at a young age in hopes that something might strongly trigger their interest.  These activities also teach discipline and committment, all good characteristics to have in the job world. I was laughing with my mother, telling her how enjoyable it was to just have the 2 kids to corral.  Not that I don’t love to have the 4 kids. Of course, I do, but logistically, it was much easier getting around in the city with just the 2:)

And to top the day off, I discovered a giant pimple on my chin.  Really?!!  As if dealing with saggy skin and wrinkles wasn’t enough in middle age.

Well, back to the reality of academics tomorrow..

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Being prepared

I’m a big fan of being prepared. Along with preparedness is staying organized. Maybe that’s partly what keeps me on the sanity side in this homeschooling world.
It’s close to one in the morning, and I’m up prepping for all of the activities that will occur later today. It’s somewhat like directing a play. There are many moving parts that have to come together to make the show run smoothly. We’ll see once the curtain goes up..

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Prepping on Inauguration Day

We had 1/2 day of academics today, although my fifth grader and I were working on math until 10:00 tonight (followed after his soccer party). I’m up tonight catching the recorded version of the Inauguration while I read more on the Asian culture and how they raise their kids. Big differences compared to the typical American culture.
Sidenote-How much work has Joe Biden had on his face? Is it surgery or Botox? Either way, he looks 10 years younger than the last time I saw him on TV!

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Peter Thiel’s views on the future/independent colony off of CA

I’ve discussed the evolving face of education before in earlier posts, but I guess I’m just so fascinated with the way our future is changing as a result of technology that I keep reading more about the topic.  And the change will have a massive effect on our children’s academic endeavors, their careers, and where they choose to live just to name a few.  Remember the cartoon, “The Jetsons”?  Is that where we’re headed?  Will our kids even bother with the old school college model if they can harness their interests and turn them into careers?  Are those running the elite, competitive universities cringing with the changes that are taking place or are they embracing them? So interesting..

http://abcnews.go.com/Technology/facebook-paypals-peter-thiel-pays-college-students-drop/story?id=13693632#.T-5SIvX3SCU

http://abcnews.go.com/Travel/peter-thiel-floating-nation-photos-reveal-tech-moguls/story?id=14381713#4