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Middle age mindset

We had what I consider to be a 1/2 day of academics. I was a bit in slow motion with instruction. The younger guys had a few math lessons and quizzes. My oldest studied several subjects independently. The contractors were attaching the last few gutters onto our house. The weather was gorgeous outside, so we studied and played at the same time. I tried a yoga class at the gym this evening and didn’t realize how tight my muscles were until I started stretching. Decent workout, but I really enjoyed the quietness and stillness of the breathing and stretching. Made me want to join a monastery, no joke. I may get my kids involved in yoga. The class made me think about their fast-paced days, and I’m not so sure that’s the best thing. They need to be still sometimes just like we do.
Middle age mindset-yes, what does that mean? I was having a discussion with my oldest this evening. He was angry and upset about some things that had been said to him by friends. I listened and we discussed many topics concerning the situation. I thought about myself and the stage of life that I’m in called middle age after talking with him. I’ve found myself in my 40’s not really caring about certain things in life anymore like I would have when I was his age. After going through medical school, having four children, and now raising them while my body changes and reminds me of such, I just don’t care anymore if someone would have issues with me. You get somewhat comfortable in who you are as a person and don’t really fret about stuff that’s not relevant to your life. I see that same attitude in many middle-age mothers. I wish I could pass that insight onto my son, but he’s got his own growing pains to do. More to keep my middle-age finger on.
Off to prep…

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Deconstructing penguins

Sitting around the pool. Kids swimming with friends while I attempt to read “Deconstructing Penguins” by Lawrence and Nancy Goldstone. This book provides ideas and a system of sorts on leading a successful book discussion with children. I’m part of a language arts team at our local HS cooperative in the fall, so I’m looking at various resources out there. Interesting book..

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Dabbling with “Dr. Joy”

Up late working on my hobby. It’s not often that I write, and I’d like to devote more time to this interest of mine. Having more time seems to be my rate-limiting factor, but I’m working on it.
“Dr. Joy” is a character I’m developing in a book. Who knows if she will ever be anything more than random thoughts in my head. I really could benefit from participating in a writer’s workshop, but that won’t happen in my near future. So, I’ll have to just play on my own..

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Swallow this pill..

Shaping our children..

Every person they meet, every experience they have, every book they read, every movie they watch, every playdate that comes over (the list goes on) is molding my children’s character and who they will eventually become as adults.